cnikansa lujvo

x1 empathizes with x2 in feeling x3.

Cf. cinmo, kansa, dai, uu, ga'i, tolcumla.

In notes:

attitudinal: closeness - distance.
x1 has enryo (Japanese term) in actions x2; x1 acts egoistically to retain their own freedom, prevent their own embarassment and at the same time acts altruistically by avoiding social involvement without hurting others; x1 socially restrains themselves under the pressure of group solidarity and conformity in order not to hurt other's feelings; x1 is polite