x1 has enryo (Japanese term) in actions x2; x1 acts egoistically to retain their own freedom, prevent their own embarrassment and at the same time acts altruistically by avoiding social involvement without hurting others; x1 socially restrains themselves under the pressure of group solidarity and conformity in order not to hurt other's feelings; x1 is polite
x1=sr1=m1=se2 errs in being identical to x2=m2 (object/person), an error under conditions x3=sr3 by standard x4=sr4=m3; x1 loses themselves in being x2; x1 errs in being a clone, caricature of x2; x1 has an identity crisis, typecasts themselves.