enriio fu'ivla

x1 has enryo (Japanese term) in actions x2; x1 acts egoistically to retain their own freedom, prevent their own embarrassment and at the same time acts altruistically by avoiding social involvement without hurting others; x1 socially restrains themselves under the pressure of group solidarity and conformity in order not to hurt other's feelings; x1 is polite

See also clite, tarti, jikca, cnikansa, dai, sevzi, zukte

In notes:

prama'eru
x1 is amai to x2 in aspect x3 (Japanese term); x1 does amaeru; x1 plays baby / catered by / protected by / undulged by x2; x1 depends and presumes upon x2's benevolence; x2 is a rabbi/counsellor to x1 without contractual/conditional relationship; x2 helps x1 cope with x3 (e.g. emotional,social, economic life's challenges)